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Empower your pleasure with coaching

We crave connection, playfulness, and pleasure in our lives. We want to feel confident to be our authentic selves, rather than live by someone else’s rules. We want to embrace our desires and live a fully embodied empowered life. We deserve deep connection, free to express our desires and needs and have them be heard. We have the power to free ourselves from old patterns and paradigms and create the life and love we crave. It IS possible to feel authentic, connected, embodied and free. I’m here to support you with the guidance, practices, and tools to get there!

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You deserve

To feel unshakably confident, empowered, and expressive-with deep self-love that emboldens you to share your boundaries, desires, and voice as you step into your truest, authentic Self
To enjoy connected, conscious, deep, and playful partnership-with a secure partner who welcomes your needs, communicates compassionately, and is eager to connect and explore your desires
To expand adventures, bliss, excitement, and love in every aspect of your life-with tools to empower self-love, honor your boundaries and desires, fearlessly express yourself, and empower your inner child to PLAY
To confidently empower your most badass, confident, liberated, and free Self-empower to follow your intuition, speak your truth, expand your pleasure, and feel resilient in the face of challenges
To be deeply loved, honored and valued for who you truly are-with aligned connections who celebrate you as you step into your power, express your truth, and embody your authentic self.

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your deep embodiment is the key to pleasure

My mission is to empower you with concrete tools, powerful insights, deep awareness, and supportive practices so you can step into your power, tune in to your pleasure, and confidently embody the most badass version of you so you can create the vision of life, love, pleasure and relationships that you crave (and deserve) and that absolutely lights you up with bliss!

1:1 coaching is for you if you want to….

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expand your experiences and embodiment of pleasure. I’m a pro at supporting you through the nuanced communication of kink dynamics, poly and ENM relationships, queer-curious exploration, or exploring adult work, even for newbies!

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honor your deepest, most authentic Self. Advocate for your desires and pleasure and set healthy, supportive boundaries so you can leave old people-pleasing patterns in the past

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skillfully navigate complex conversations with compassionate communication skills that will clearly express your thoughts with less fear, shame, or hurting each other’s feelings

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overcome shame, fear, self-doubt, insecurity, anxiety, and over-thinking, so you can stop being your harshest critic and start being your own biggest fan (cheesy, but true)

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confidently communicate your needs and desires, explore your edges, and embrace bliss so you can more effortlessly create the life + love you crave

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magnetize emotionally available partners so you can ditch the endless dating cycle and discern who will make an effort, wants the same things as you, and doesn’t play games (trust me, they’re out there!)

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learn simple yet powerful tools to feel empowered in EVERY aspect of your life – from your love life and intimacy to your career. These skills apply to *everything* – for real

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deepen your passion, intimacy, pleasure, exploration, and embodiment on every level – so you can break free of old paradigms and patterns to truly embrace your who YOU are, and radiate that powerful energy out into the world

My coaching includes

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A pre-coaching workbook & Intention setting journal

This workbook will guide you through questions and activities to help you get clear on what you want, what’s holding you back, and what you want to shift during our time together.

02.

Desire Mapping & Deep Clarity

We’ll connect on our first call to set an intention for our time together, map out the key areas we’ll focus on, and the modalities to get you there.

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Ongoing 1:1 Calls

We’ll connect one on one to dive deep, get to the core of your blocks, and support you with practical tools to make shifts toward all you desire.

Real-world practices & support techniques

During our calls, I’ll share embodiment practices, reframing techniques, and communication tools you can apply day-to-day to bring our work to life. Our calls can also be recorded

Voice memo & text support between calls

Reach out anytime via messanger between sessions to ask questions, gain clarity, get support, and deepen your practice of techniques as you apply them in your day-to-day life. Optional detailed email notes to keep on hand forever!

Compassionate guideance & space to explore

I’ll hold space for you to explore your fears and blocks without judgement, while all feeling safe and supported. With a heart-ceneterd approach, I’ll guide you to implement new tools, so you can lovingly move through fear and create the life you desire.

Personalized extra recommendations

I love to recommend books, podcasts, resources, and tools personally picked to help you along your transformative path.

Nurishing wrap up session

We’ll connect on our last call to revisit your intentions, reflect on the shifts you’ve made, and create an aligned plan for you to continue thriving in the future.

Bonus content & discounts

You’ll receive my Pleasure Practices and Somatic Practices PDF’s, my guided Erotic Alchemy meditation, and 15% off all my programs or those created during our time together.

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About Me

I’m a Beauty Consultant, Certified Kink Therapist, Muse, Psycho-dramatist, Certified Reiki Master Practitioner, Sex Coach and Sexpert.

I have taken many classes on diverse topics in human sexuality, including classes from SexCoachU, taught by Dr. Patti Britton.

For years, I have worked passionately to help pleasure-seekers live more empowered lives, in the bedroom and beyond.

Whether you’re exploring intimacy, dating, and relationships or craving more pleasure, authenticity, and embodiment in any aspect of your life, our work together will support you and light the way.

In 1:1 coaching, I combine my knowledge of human sexuality and intamacy, relationship and sex coaching with years of professional experience in the industry, plus ongoing training and mentorship in many healing modalities to bring you personal growth tools, scientifically proven techniques, and a holistic mind-body approach, to help you transform your life from the inside out.

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Bestseller Books​

Astrology of Love & Sex

$21.99​

Bringing the ancient matchmaking tool of astrology into the 21st century, The Astrology of Love & Sex explores the romantic and sensual sides of the zodiac. In 12 detailed chapters, astrologer Annabel Gat divulges how each sign likes to flirt, date, and fool around.

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Let That Sh*t Go: A Journal for Leaving Your Bullsh*t Behind & Creating a Happy Life

$16.99​


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Hold Me Tight

$31.99

Strengthen and deepen your relationships with this “much-needed” (Harville Hendrix, PhD) guide that has sold over one million copies, through revelatory practical exercises, seven profound conversations, and sage advice from “the best couple’s therapist in the world” (John Gottman, PhD, bestselling author).

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Happy Clients

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I have worked with many coaches, but Kida’s sessions have TRULY been transformational. It’s incredible to see the big shifts I’ve made already in the brief time we’ve worked together. Kida has shown me that I have the right to express my needs and desires, and since finding my voice, my relationships have transformed. Kida’s sharp insights into my own patterns, and compassionate approach to give me tools to overcome them, are nothing short of psyche-magic.
Sadie
★★★★★
Working with Kida for over 2 years now has been a great balance of working through emotions and having a path forward with logic. Your practices have opened my eyes, my mind, and my heart up to why I do what I do, and to not be ashamed of the coping strategies that I have – but using them as keys to unlock the other tools and resilience inside me, that my fears had been protecting for so long. Working with those keys has opened an authentic version of myself. I now have tools rather than crutches, which help me show who I am and who I want to be. 
Caitlynn
★★★★★
Kida’s coaching approach applies to all aspects of my life – career, sexuality, my relationships, friendships, and most importantly, my relationship with myself. Our work together has encouraged me to embrace my authentic truths and express myself without fear, no matter what social norms say. It’s been personally transformative and has inspired me professionally to help others through my work as well.
​Lisa

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